Remembrance VI

There are not that many events with Elaine and King other than Chinese New Year gathering and birthday gatherings. They have all graduated except me. My students days are ok and still fun. Just with a different group of people.

This is also the year where King and Elaine graduate. I remember going out with King and Woon Shen to get the flower for Elaine. We share the cost of it as we got her 2 bouquets. One is a bouquet of roses while the other is a cauliflower bouquet ^_^ Hahaha... she was shocked when she saw it. But in the end, we reuse it as Elaine's graduation is in the afternoon while the others are in the evening. In the evening, me, Elaine and Daniel waited patiencely outside the hall and the food was tempting us to eat. Finally the graduates came out and it was King's turn to be prank. Right after King, it was Melanie's turn. It is her Master's graduation ^_^ We took some good pictures ^_^
That was basically the highlight besides Elaine's birthday party at her place. It was during this time that Shirley's prince charming appear ^_^ You would have to ask her on it ^_^ The next year was also a happening one where I had a BBQ at my place. It was fun to have it with friends. I must give special thanks to Maurice for he men the fire well for me and marinate the meat ^_^ We had some drinks but was cool as we had some fun. I can say that my bottle of Baileys was finish without me having a single sip of it =.= Wei Hong was there too and he was funny ^_^ There was also Yuen Khong and his brother, Lewis (I seriously hope I remember the name correctly).

There were others too. But I think a year before that I went on a trip to Malacca with Melanie and Chris. It was a day trip where we went to visit Elaine and had a feast there.

This year was no trip to Malacca but Melanie got married. Hahaha.... I hope I got the year right. It was a small ceremony where close friends and relative gather together. Daniel was there too ^_^
Later on the same year, my best friend Merlye got married too. Hers was a small one in a grand manner. But she would have another round in Kuching as her husband, Geoffrey is from Kuching. Hahaha... His friends are fun to be with but I think I didn't give them a good impression of myself =.= Don't ask me why but that time I think I was arrogant due to hanging out with some arrogant friends =.= Got rub on but thank goodness I did get rid of it eventually. But I can say I'm still bitchy a bit when knowing new people as I would see if it is fine to be friends with them or not first. Scare of being played out by people now. In the end of the year, there were some sad times but I mange to grow strong and overcome it.
I also know a lot of new people who are successful in their career and I learn from them to prepare myself for the working world ^_^ But another happy incident is, I became my best friend's daughter's Godmother ^_^ hahaha.... yes I am the Godmother to Brenda Lee ^_^ My aim for her is to spoil her till her mother come and shot me with her plasma gun ^_^

Remembrance V

There was one year where King, Senan, Kah Wai and Kean Leng were away in Australia. It was a quiet year even there were many happenings like a trip to Malacca and Genting where Elaine's father sponsor our Malacca trip. Hahhaa...free food, lodging and liquor ^_^ Throughout the trip, we play xBox and gambling. We have liquor to compliment those games hahaha....

I remember playing mahjong and chor ti where the loser have to down the liquor. I remember downing a few and straight went high. I couldn't walk straight and Wei Sern was like laughing at me. He accompany me down to have fresh air. It took me a long time to be saint back =.= Then it happen again in Genting where we mahjong the whole night and drink. The next morning we went to the theme park. I remember clearly that Elaine was about to shout my name loud if I chicken out on the Solaros shot and also the roller coaster. But she was smart to say out loud, "Are we still under alcohol influence?" She say the sign no drinking and announce that =.= but we manage to go on and nothing happen ^_^ hahaha....

That was one fun time. When King and the rest came back, the first party we had was at Kean Leng's place with alcohol. That was fun as Kean Leng and Jason both KO at the early stage and went to sleep. Then slowly followed by the others. In the end, me and Elaine got King drunk and we make fun of him ^_^ Elaine told him that he is drunk, and he answered that he isn't drunk in a drunkard manner ^_^ hahaha

Throughout that year, a lot happen. The sad one I had highlighted at the previous blog. That was when my so called best friend broke my trust the third and I never trust her ever till today. I limit our friendship to Hi and Bye. She would try to ask me on my life but I limit my answer to minimal. For she dig information about me and change the story. I never know how she twist it but the things I hear from others are unbearable to listen to. I think due to that, I always have excuses for what I do. I never let anyone know my main reason of my actions but go round the bush on it. Those that knows me well wouldn't question me much compare to others. But there is one person whom should know me well rather trust the one who add salt to situation than trusting what he knows about me.

Unfortuantely, this person is the person whom I love and it hurts badly. I have tried to make things work between us but too many obstacles. Obstacles that comes never ending till I do not know what to do now. He knows how I feel but he told me he can't let it go further due to some reasons. Reasons, my attitude for many people dislike me. I told him that in this world there are people who would like you and dislike you. So what is the big deal. Then he told me my this character that make things worst. This character of mine have gone from bad to worst. Little does he knows that there are many who dislike him but never tell him. So now, it is time to cool it and I'm looking elsewhere. I do not know how I feel but I know time is needed to see what the future would be like.

So for now, it is time for me to chill and have fun. Let things all fall to place on its own ^_^

Remembrance IV

After being rejected by my first love, I did have a few crush with younger guys ^_^ And what is the best is they are all table tennis player ^_^ Hahaha...I spend a lot of time training with them to improve. Besides that, I was also a regular pool player. I train hard too and manage to play a game in less than 5 minutes (Not to brag but it was like that at that time). It was then I found myself falling in love again with another guy. A guy who learn to play table tennis from me and excel fast in the spins. He was also a very pro pool player ^_^

Unfortunately, he didn't like me but take me as a friend. But we hang out very often together. I remember there was a night where me, Elaine, him, and other friends went for the movie Police Story in Pyramid then for drinks in Q-Bar. We sat outside and I remember Elaine's plan of getting me drunk. She was successful and I can remember walking down the ramp to the car park. I couldn't walk in heels and took off my heels. While taking my heels off, I couldn't balance myself to take the shoe off. Hahaha...It was a funny sight ^_^ Lucky I didn't drive that night.

Other than that, there were many events with Elaine and spontaneous activities. Besides that, I have to thank her and my university family, Calvin Tang (grandpa), Grace Cheng (grandma), Elaine (mummy), Wei Sern (small brother) and other friends, Justin and gang. Besides them, there is always Merlye who supports me throught emails and msn ^_^ I can say it is hard to split Merlye and myself as we are known to be Lilo and Stitch where I'm Lilo and she is Stitch ^_^ We got this title when we were partners for double. I will be the one to cool her down when playing ^_^ Hehehe...

Besides those, Kean Leng has always been the one to organize gathering till today. Our main gathering is always Chinese New Year and house visiting ^_^ We gather at Kean Leng's house for Lo Sang every year. We have gambling sessions too ^_^

Thinking back, there are so many good memories besides the bad that happen. But somehow the bad seems to scar me till I forgotten all the good ones. Now there are pouring back to me and there are so much to write. I will continue in the next post ^_^